Given a chance, what part of your life you would like to alter? I believe everyone would like to take this opportunity to make the things straight. Only the pure-hearted kids are exception to this J
Embarrassment, regret, guilt, sorrow and anger are the visitors from the past, which indicate that we have unsettled business. Unfortunately, we can’t time travel to get them settled. The only thing we can take from it is life lesson. Time has the power of healing all the wounds!!
Wandering in the past mostly gives pain, anger and sadness. We may find some cherishing moments from those yellow calendar pages!
I personally recommend listing the events and attached feeling on a piece of paper. Categories them, take some action and move ahead in life!
- Feeling happy – Remember those sweet memories, feel proud about it!
- Regret – Ok, that’s the opportunity where we can learn something from experience and use it on future situations
- Guilt on something – Did we have better way of doing it? Can we correct it? Let’ go ahead and resolve it, else move on. Share your learning with your dear ones.
- Ashamed of – Confess about it and forgive yourself. In the vast universe, we are just a small dot. There are many more important things than this.
- Anger - Have sour feeling about someone, give it some time, little more. Go ahead and say sorry, let people know that we are valuing the relation.
Clean up your mind; fill it with fresh thoughts and positive feeling of relation. Fix the mistakes you can; forgive and forget! No one is the reason of your happiness except you yourself. There is nothing more valuable than our peace of mind.
Enjoy the present and be prepared for the future with priceless lessons from past!
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