Priorities keep changing, so does life!!

Priorities keep changing, so does life!!

Sunday, December 28, 2014

Happened for a Reason or Destiny?


Michael was on his pleasure walk. It’s his regular evening exercise with the purpose of enjoying scenic beauty around the route. On that particular evening, everything was as usual, except a kid playing with a cute puppy on the roadside.
The puppy was very small, probably couple of weeks older. The boy chained puppy as the symbol of ownership. Even though the boy seemed from a poor family; he was feeding biscuits to the puppy. One can see the love and attachment for the pup in his eyes, but at his age, he was unable to make out the fact that the puppy is too small to be chained. Michael decided to talk to the boy and to explain him the risk of choking the puppy.
Michael paused to interact with the kid. After few minutes of confab, the kid, Stuart, gelled with him. Stuart pointed finger to a roadside shack to show his home to Michael. He started sharing the story of this doggy. The mother doggy delivered five puppies near his school. Within a week, the dam died due to some unknown reason and the puppies were all by themselves. They were at the risk of starving. School kids provided some milk from their pocket money to save them. Later on, the boys realized another risk to puppies' life; being killed by other street dogs. To save them, each of Stu’s friends took one puppy as pet. He got this one and named it as Billy.
What a great thought by group of small kids!! They actually saved 5 lives. Michael praised Stuart and his friends for their good work. He also offered some money for the milk and biscuits. With all the affection in his words, he drew Stuart’s attention to the chain and explained the risk of choking off Billy. Stuart happily agreed and immediately unchained the whelp. In just couple of weeks Billy’s life was saved third time! It must have solid lifeline! 
Michael continued on his path with the satisfaction of absolving a soul from chains. The next evening, Michael spotted Stuart at the same place, alone and deeply saddened. After talking to him, Michael learned about the accident. Last night, unchained Billy hit the road and was crushed by the garbage truck! 
Without saying a word, with numbed Michael started walking.
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What went wrong? How could Billy die? It had been saved thrice from death like situations, or was it a destiny for Billy? Living as street dog, Billy might have survived through starvation. It might have been accepted by other dogs, but being Stuart’s pet it got chains. With the chain, Billy might have endured from choking, but unchaining definitely killed it. 

On every decision point, aim was to help Billy. Helping him to survive was actually leading to the certain death. Life is full of uncertainty, isn't it?

There is a supreme force, driving the universe. Every event or incident happens, happens for a reason. Certain events are destined to happen. We may interfere to make things better, or we think we are making it better. The fated may get delayed, may choose different path, but will happen. Happen for sure! 

Whenever we loose some valuables, or we are at the bad phase of relationship, or one of our near ones leaves us... accept it as destiny. It was bound to happens, it was scripted by the universal force. Many times, we see someone suffering, we try hard to help, but that help doesn't suffice to end the trouble... try to be positive. We shouldn't stop adding efforts for helping, we shouldn't give up. But we shouldn't lose our hearts, if things doesn't go our way. Once we reach at the end of logical reasoning, after adequate efforts, accept the situation as the chosen by fate. At this stage, we may unable to understand the rationale or are futile to connect the dots, but it is part of some bigger picture. The best thing about destiny is, it is invisible. We have to try, try harder until we are out of pointers.

All the life events that happen, always lead to a next event and the cycle goes on and on. If someone lost the job, feeling sad and shattered; it can be the ground for getting better opportunities in life. May be it is the almighty's way of inspiring the person to do something better, something he would have never dared to do.

May be I am writing this for some reason and as reader you are hear for some reason!

11 comments:

  1. Wow.. Very good story and article.. Whenever i heard this sentence "everything happened, there must b reson" Even it is also written in Gita, but when came to few facts that, In the world there is one rape on girl per second, One child is missing per hour, such kind of many things which happened in the world on daily basis which forced me to not to believe that line.....

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    1. Thanks Devanshu or sharing your thoughts!
      I somewhat agree with your points, but I still believe that there must be a reason. We are probably unable to look at the complete picture.

      Just imagine a situation, a boy couldn't go to school as the alarm didn't go off. On the same day, school was attacked by terrorists and he was the only survivor of that class.

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    2. Correct Saurabh... Only one child was saved, other 155 were not... Thats why "everything happens there must be a reson" not believe in this line :) what is the reason behind 155 deaths? If we give a credit to someone (God) to save that one child, then he is also responsible for the death of other 155. And it was difficult to get the inspiration from only one life compared to 155 :)

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    3. I think the answer to Devanshu's point is inside the blog,
      "Once we reach at the end of logical reasoning, after adequate efforts, accept the situation as the chosen by fate. At this stage, we may unable to understand the rationale or are futile to connect the dots, but it is part of some bigger picture."

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    4. True Maunik. In fact Devanshu himself faced this situation around Uttarayan. He may like to share his experience :)

      Keep reading friends. I will get back with new article soon...

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  2. You have such an interesting blog. Thanks for sharing, I enjoyed reading your posts. All the best for your future blogging journey.

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  3. Very well written Saurabh.
    Our trained and learned mind most of the times tries to find logic/reason behind every action of nature which is not possible without understanding "The Bigger Picture" or I should say destiny.

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    1. Thanks Maunik!!

      I personally witnessed many incidents, destined to happen :)

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